WEDDING
GUIDE
Are you
about to get married? For most women, this is the day that they've been planning
for since they were young girls. If you feel the same, then it's understandable
why you're out seeking advice, help and support to make your dream wedding a
reality.
Let's face it. When it comes to wedding dress, most men just can't
seem to understand the importance of picking the perfect wedding dress. True,
you're only going to be wearing that gown once in your life, and your groom may
still feel the inclination to tie the knot even if you showed up dressed in a
potato sack, but you very well know that one of the most important days of your
life merits an exceptionally special
dress.
Top Tips to Choose the
Perfect Wedding Dress
There are so many wedding details that you need to
take care of, but it's equally important that you take the time to find the
perfect wedding gown for you. To help you out, we've come up with a list of
wedding dress tips for how you can look your best on your wedding day.
Tip
1: Is constantly going to your groom for tips getting you down? Find a
female friend or relative who will gladly accompany you on your trips to the
bridal shop.
Unless your groom is female fashion-savvy, he's not going to be
much help when you ask him about the perfect wedding dress collar or neckline
for you. Find a female companion or companions that you trust enough for second
and third opinions.
Tip 2: Set a budget, and try to follow
it.
Wedding dress budgets are hardly ever exact. You may need to spend more
or you might end up spending less than you expected. The point is having a
budget in mind can help you control the urge to splurge on your very special
dress. Try your hardest to follow your dress budget, and pray that you find a
great wedding dress bargain that will make your groom proud.
Tip 3:
Consider the color of your gown.
You can stick with tradition and go for
white, but if you want to add some color to your gown, then by all means, find
the perfect color for you. Today, a number of modern brides are choosing colored
wedding dresses instead of plain white ones. Stand out in the sea of white-clad
brides by going for an eye-popping color.
You may want to take the season
into consideration when picking out your wedding dress color, or you can simply
go for what flatters your complexion best. Also be prepared for possible adverse
reactions from your traditional guests. Console yourself with the thought that
it's your wedding, and you can wear blue or even black if you want to.
Tip
4: Find the right wedding dress length.
Yes, wedding gowns can be short
or long depending on the type of ceremony you're having and where you're
planning on having it. There's a very basic rule when it comes to choosing the
perfect wedding dress length, and it's to base your dress length on how formal
the ceremony is.
If you're having a formal ceremony, then floor-length is the
way to go. If it's an ultra-formal wedding, then you may want to add a cathedral
train to your dress. For informal weddings, you can choose the hemline that
flatters you best.
Short, or at least shorter wedding dresses are advised for
casual and outdoor weddings for practical reasons. You don't want to get mud,
twigs, leaves or sand on your floor-length designer wedding dress,
right?
Tip 5: Pick the appropriate and the most flattering
sleeve-length and style for your dress.
By appropriate, we're merely
reminding you that a winter wedding may not be the best time to go for a halter,
plunging and backless number unless you're planning on wearing over
clothes.
If you're feeling conscious about your arms or your shoulders, then
you might want to keep those problem areas covered. There are numerous sleeve
styles and sleeve lengths to choose from; simply pick the one that fits the
occasion best while making you feel pretty and comfortable in your
dress.
Tip 6: Know the importance of finding the right skirt style and
dress shape for your body.
Much like wedding dresses, brides come in
different shapes and sizes. Take into consideration your physical assets, your
overall body shape and your problem areas when making your choice of skirt style
and dress shape.
For example, if you're shaped like an inverted triangle,
with prominent shoulders and small hips, then a ball gown would balance your
proportions creating the perfect silhouette and hourglass figure.
Tip
7: Determining the best neckline for you.
Your wedding gown's neckline
can definitely affect your gown's overall appearance. You have numerous neckline
options, but it's all a matter of finding the most suitable and flattering
neckline for your frame.
Remember, in the same way that you need to take your
assets, body shape and problem areas into consideration when picking out dress
shapes and skirt styles, you also need to look at these factors when choosing
your wedding dress neckline.
If you're planning on showing off your arms,
your beautiful shoulders and pronounced collar bones, and you have an ample
bosom to pull off the look, then the strapless gown is an excellent neckline
choice. If you tend towards the flat side, then you can enhance your bust area
with a bateau neckline.
Tip 8: Look for the right fabric.
A pure
satin ball gown would not stand on its own without layers of tulle under it or
hoops built into the dress. Your choice of fabric could directly affect your
gown's overall look. If you tend to be uncomfortable or if you tend to feel
itchy when you're wearing crisp and net-like fabrics, then go for the breezy and
lightweight ones.
There are so many different fabrics to choose from. A way
to familiarize yourself with these fabrics is to ask your wedding planner or the
bridal boutique owner to help you distinguish between the different fabric types
available.
Tip 9: Decide on whether or not you want or need a wedding
train.
A wedding train means extra-fabric and detailing, which translates to
paying more for your wedding dress. Unless your wedding is ultra-formal, you're
not going to need a train.
If your heart is set on having a train that trails
gracefully behind you, then pick your train length based on practicality. Your
wedding train can decrease your mobility, making it difficult to maneuver
between chairs and tables during the reception. A detachable wedding train is
most advisable if you're planning on doing a lot of dancing and walking after
the actual wedding ceremony.
Tip 10: Be Wary of wedding gown sizing
and necessary alterations.
You'll find out more about this when you actually
head to the bridal boutique to be measured.
You may already know your actual
size, but don't be too surprised if they tell you that you're a size or two
bigger than you thought.
This is not to say that they have faulty sizing
charts; it only means that wedding dress boutiques and high street shops have a
different way of determining your dress size. Your dress size is based on your
body's largest dimension.
If you have prominent hips and a smaller bust area,
then your wedding dress size will be based on your hip size.
Once you get
your wedding gown, you need to check if alterations need to be made for a
perfect fit. Most brides find that alterations are necessary to get the size
right. Ask the boutique or shop owner for estimates on how much you're going to
have to pay for dress alterations to determine if you're getting a great bargain
or a rotten deal.
Tip 11: If you think your dress needs that extra
sparkle and glam then go for some decorations and embellishments.
Wedding
dress embellishments and decorations have one special purpose, and that's to
bring something extra to your gown.
Additional decorations and embellishments
are a great way of making your dress even more unique and fashionable.
A
basic gown would look great with additional beading and perhaps some embroidery.
If you want a more feminine gown, then adding a bow, some ribbons or
three-dimensional flowers can give your dress the boost needed to make it an
amazing and personalized wedding dress.
Find a great seamstress or wedding
dress designer to help you pick out the right detailing for your gown.
Tip
12: Decide if you need over clothes for your wedding gown.
If you're
having a winter wedding, and your heart is set on a strapless, A-Line, princess
dress, then a great coat or bolero will help you keep warm during the wedding
ceremony.Keep in mind that there are also some churches that require brides to
wear modest attire for the ceremony. Rayon fringed shawls and floor-length
feathered coats are excellent ways of keeping covered during the actual
ceremony.On your way to your reception, simply slip out of these over clothes to
show the full beauty of your wedding gown.Follow these helpful tips and keep
these reminders in mind when dress-shopping, to make your hunt for the perfect
wedding dress a more enjoyable and less stressful experience.
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